Nude Utah Swingers Chatting Now

Nude Utah Swingers Chatting Now
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Sunday, June 23, 2013

What kind of swinger are you?

What kind of swinger are you?

This is a topic that I could never possibly cover in one post and I’m sure will be mulled over again and again.
It seems everyone has a perspective as to what is the best kind of swinging, and those that have been around a while usually realize that the “best” kind of swinging is whatever works for you and yours. Try not to judge others for what works for them, you’ll surprise yourself often when you realize what works for you today is very possibly something you shunned or didn’t identify with before today.
There are way too many types, subtypes, kinks, orientations, and so on to make any sort of definitive swinger list. Even if I was writing an entire book the complexities can be astounding. You’ll also find many people change what they identify as or what they’ll do often based on factors in their own life. Comfort level, attraction, personal growth, insecurities, new and past experiences all contribute to what we are and what we want right now.
One thing to remember about ANY category someone puts themselves in, is that not many people are exactly what they may write on their profiles. This isn’t permission to try and push for anything… it just means that with a mutual attraction people may be willing to do more than they let on… and the opposite is always true. Swingers are often very discretionary. Just because we have sex with people other than our partner, doesn’t typically mean we’ll have sex with anything that breathes. In fact, you’ll find that once the excitement of being brand new wears off, you may become much pickier that you would have expected. You already have someone that you hopefully enjoy having sex with. New people typically have to have something alluring to bring to the table. Otherwise your own partner who is likely also your best friend is a fantastic companion.
Knowing kind of what terms mean is helpful, though you’ll quickly find that finding out what people are specifically looking for will be much more useful than trying to understand every possible meaning of the swinger vocab.
We’ll list some basics types and then maybe talk about other intricacies later… and you’ll experience plenty of your own as well:
-Soft swap: This is such a broad term it has become almost useless. About the only thing it actually indicates is there will be no genital penetration between non-partners. It can mean same room sex with your own partner or it could include full contact with a person other than your own partner up to and including oral sex.
-Full swap: This type can include everything soft swap does as well as penetration. It could literally mean anything. A full swap couple may be fine with dinner and dancing or could mean meeting in a hotel room for a 30 person orgy without knowing anyone’s name.
-Girl on girl or GG: These swingers are typically only looking for their respective female partners to have contact, or at least for that to be a primary focus. Just like all types, this could lead to anything all parties agree too.
-Same room or separate room swingers: This is what it sounds like. It typically refers to full swap or at least partner swapping soft swap. Swingers that play in the same room (with opposite partners) or that are willing to play in separate rooms. Swingers are often polarized and one type of the other can often be a deal breaker. Though plenty of swingers will do both depending on how comfortable they are. Same room seems to be the more common preference, but like anything in the lifestyle, You can find anything you are looking for if you’re patient enough
Beyond the basic breakdown of what I’ll call “typical swingers” there are many other communities that have a considerable overlap. As to not make this post a wall of text, we talk about some of those other communities in our next post.
Happy Hunting. :)
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